A Guide to Trance Land – Review
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This slim volume is a clear-cut guide to the hypnotically permissive manner of encouraging clients to uncover their own solutions.
O’Hanlon distinguishes this solution-oriented hypnotherapy from what he calls the traditional approach with its emphasis on treating the “causes” of problems and the outside-in focus of the hypnotherapist telling the client what to do to overcome her pathology.
“Ericksonian or solution-oriented hypnosis holds no such assumption of pathology, problem, damage, or deficit. Instead, we are oriented to people’s abilities and resources. Therefore, we use the hypnotic process to discover and connect to [to the person's inner] resources.”
This “permissive” approach is in direct contrast to the old way of conducting a session of hypnotherapy. Instead of speaking of “shoulds” and “musts” the hypnotist speaks of “perhaps” and “maybes”. The idea is both to meet the client where he or she is and to allow solutions to their problems to arise from within them.
Despite the author’s demarcation of his approach as being radically different to traditional hypnotherapy in practice surely most of us incorporate something of both methods?
Just the other day, for instance, when a Christian client spoke of herself as being immature, I said perhaps that’s true but she is moving forward and as St Paul said. “When I was a child…” and continued with the Biblical quote that was meaningful and relevant to her. Meeting the client where she is now.
O’Hanlon rightly warns (in regard to using the client’s vocabulary) “it is important to be careful here and not come across as mocking or disrespectful…”
I certainly don’t want to be “mocking or disrespectful” about this Guide but here are four items that raised my eyebrows:
1. I find the cover, with its big dog looking down at a cat, puzzling for a book about human hypnosis.
2. On almost every page there is a rubber-stamp type black and white image of an animal or bird. Contrary to the author’s assertion that such designs make the book easier to read and memorable I find these images distracting. At first glance, the book appears to be a book about pets or for children. It is neither.
3. Some of the suggested “therapeutic” behaviors are downright comical. For example, what would you think about a hypnotherapist who bounces around, speaking into your left ear while emphasizing “you can make those changes you really want to make.”
4. What have become known as NLP [Neuro-Linguistic Programming] techniques are, in my opinion, manipulative and dishonest. This one, from page 31, is both. And funny:
“The hypnotist sometimes mirrors the person’s posture or movements as a way of joining and connecting. For example, when a person crosses and uncrosses his legs, the hypnotist also crosses and uncrosses her legs. Another way to match body behavior is to vary some part of your behavior when the person changes his body behavior. That is, every time he blinks, you nod.”
Despite such hilarious portions of the book, the main thrust provides invaluable instruction for hypnotherapists – particularly those hitherto inclined to bark orders at their clients.
To this end, Bill O’Hanlon provides many specific examples of what to say and how to say it. Much of this is derived from the genius of the late Milton Erickson whose (at that time) unorthodox methods of hypnotherapy have become dogma for some devotees.
Unfortunately, you can’t package genius. How Erickson dealt with people arose from his unique talents. We can be inspired by him, we can imitate his respectful approach but we stifle the very essence of his permissive attitude when we seek to encapsulate his methods into rigid rules.
Nevertheless, the synthesis of the Ericksonian approach that O’Hanlon details at the end of the book is masterful.
Hypnotherapists new to the field and those previously stuck in the “traditional” mode will find these instructions enlightening. Especially the chapter, “Bad Trance/ Good Trance” with its table of “Symptomatic Trance vs. Healing Trance.”
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A Guide to Trance Land – Review
Want to learn hypnosis
at home? This is the course you need!
This slim volume is a clear-cut guide to the hypnotically permissive manner of encouraging clients to uncover their own solutions.
O’Hanlon distinguishes this solution-oriented hypnotherapy from what he calls the traditional approach with its emphasis on treating the “causes” of problems and the outside-in focus of the hypnotherapist telling the client what to do to overcome her pathology.
“Ericksonian or solution-oriented hypnosis holds no such assumption of pathology, problem, damage, or deficit. Instead, we are oriented to people’s abilities and resources. Therefore, we use the hypnotic process to discover and connect to [to the person's inner] resources.”
This “permissive” approach is in direct contrast to the old way of conducting a session of hypnotherapy. Instead of speaking of “shoulds” and “musts” the hypnotist speaks of “perhaps” and “maybes”. The idea is both to meet the client where he or she is and to allow solutions to their problems to arise from within them.
Despite the author’s demarcation of his approach as being radically different to traditional hypnotherapy in practice surely most of us incorporate something of both methods?
Just the other day, for instance, when a Christian client spoke of herself as being immature, I said perhaps that’s true but she is moving forward and as St Paul said. “When I was a child…” and continued with the Biblical quote that was meaningful and relevant to her. Meeting the client where she is now.
O’Hanlon rightly warns (in regard to using the client’s vocabulary) “it is important to be careful here and not come across as mocking or disrespectful…”
I certainly don’t want to be “mocking or disrespectful” about this Guide but here are four items that raised my eyebrows:
1. I find the cover, with its big dog looking down at a cat, puzzling for a book about human hypnosis.
2. On almost every page there is a rubber-stamp type black and white image of an animal or bird. Contrary to the author’s assertion that such designs make the book easier to read and memorable I find these images distracting. At first glance, the book appears to be a book about pets or for children. It is neither.
3. Some of the suggested “therapeutic” behaviors are downright comical. For example, what would you think about a hypnotherapist who bounces around, speaking into your left ear while emphasizing “you can make those changes you really want to make.”
4. What have become known as NLP [Neuro-Linguistic Programming] techniques are, in my opinion, manipulative and dishonest. This one, from page 31, is both. And funny:
“The hypnotist sometimes mirrors the person’s posture or movements as a way of joining and connecting. For example, when a person crosses and uncrosses his legs, the hypnotist also crosses and uncrosses her legs. Another way to match body behavior is to vary some part of your behavior when the person changes his body behavior. That is, every time he blinks, you nod.”
Despite such hilarious portions of the book, the main thrust provides invaluable instruction for hypnotherapists – particularly those hitherto inclined to bark orders at their clients.
To this end, Bill O’Hanlon provides many specific examples of what to say and how to say it. Much of this is derived from the genius of the late Milton Erickson whose (at that time) unorthodox methods of hypnotherapy have become dogma for some devotees.
Unfortunately, you can’t package genius. How Erickson dealt with people arose from his unique talents. We can be inspired by him, we can imitate his respectful approach but we stifle the very essence of his permissive attitude when we seek to encapsulate his methods into rigid rules.
Nevertheless, the synthesis of the Ericksonian approach that O’Hanlon details at the end of the book is masterful.
Hypnotherapists new to the field and those previously stuck in the “traditional” mode will find these instructions enlightening. Especially the chapter, “Bad Trance/ Good Trance” with its table of “Symptomatic Trance vs. Healing Trance.”
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Attractive Body Language
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It’s been said that people pay more attention to nonverbal communication than the verbal kind. If this is indeed true then, without doubt, taking the time to master your own body language is time well spent.
This is particularly true of attracting women with your body language. Women typically respond well to men they deem to appear strong, assertive, confident and in control. So how do you make yourself appear that way? Well here are a few pointers on body language that will make you appear more attractive to any woman.
1. Slow down. A slow, steady pace of verbal and nonverbal communication is closely associated with confidence in mating psychology. Think about whenever you see someone who’s talking at a hundred miles per hour and tapping their foot and twitching. They look nervous and edgy. Slow down your speech and movements and you will immediately look confident and in control.
2. Hand gestures. Think about all the best orators in history and how they used hand gestures to engage people when they talked. Practice using hand gestures while you talk to people, but as I said below, make sure your movements are slow and confident.
3. Create your own space. Whenever you’re in a room, especially if there’s quite a number of people there, create your own space where you have a couple of feet all around you where no-one else is standing. This shows that you are confident enough to mark your territory.
4. Lean back. Rather than leaning in when you talk to a woman you should actually lean back a little. This makes them lean in to listen to you and puts you in control of the situation.
5. Open up. Stand with your legs slightly apart and your arms at your sides (not crossed) so you appear more relaxed and open. You should also directly face the person you are talking to.
6. Control your posture. Imagine that you’re the President of America. Are you going to be walking around with your head held high, shoulders back, chest out and back straight? Of course you are, you’d be the most powerful man in the world! Just because you’re not the President doesn’t mean you can’t act like you’re not. Women respect power.
7. Remain controlled. Never act as if you’re excited to talk to someone. That doesn’t mean not to act friendly but if you let your emotions take control then women will lose respect for you and think you’re needy.
I hope these tips will help you to improve your body language and attract more women.
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HypnoBusters’ September Bonus Code
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To celebrate Men’s Cancer Health Awarness and Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month, this month’s bonus code will enable you to buy our Healing Cancer Hypnosis MP3 for just $4.95.
This particular session is not a cure for cancer, however what it will do is help anyone suffering from cancer or its after effects to relax more, come to terms with their condition and increase the speed of the healing process as well as reduce any feelings of sickness or nausea.
To get this MP3 now simply go to the Healing Cancer Hypnosis MP3 page and add the MP3 to your account. Then enter the bonus code FELDER and update your account. You will find that the price will reduce from $9.95 to $4.95.
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HypnoBusters’ September Bonus Code
Want to learn hypnosis
at home? This is the course you need!
To celebrate Men’s Cancer Health Awarness and Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month, this month’s bonus code will enable you to buy our Healing Cancer Hypnosis MP3 for just $4.95.
This particular session is not a cure for cancer, however what it will do is help anyone suffering from cancer or its after effects to relax more, come to terms with their condition and increase the speed of the healing process as well as reduce any feelings of sickness or nausea.
To get this MP3 now simply go to the Healing Cancer Hypnosis MP3 page and add the MP3 to your account. Then enter the bonus code FELDER and update your account. You will find that the price will reduce from $9.95 to $4.95.
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